Stroller Coaster

Before Tay and I found out she was pregnant with the twins, we already owned a stroller and had a nursery in our apartment. No, it wasn't one of those "speak your dreams into existence" situations. Before we found out she was pregnant, we had started the process of becoming licensed foster parents. That means... Continue Reading →

What to do about ‘WAP’

Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion dropped the biggest song of the summer, and in a COVID season devoid of blockbuster movie releases, the song doubled as a horror flick for every dad with a daughter. "WAP" is the name, an acronym for ... well, let's just say the song is about women feeling good... Continue Reading →


I did not see this coming. When Taylisha and I started the process of picking names for our twins, we didn't yet know the genders. But even before the gender reveal, we had settled on one name: Caron Nasir Burton. If we had two boys, or a boy and a girl, Caron would be one... Continue Reading →

The Notorious N.I.C.U.

We were warned. Early and often during the pregnancy, our doctors left little doubt that one or both of the twins would spend some time in the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) after they were born. Ours was already a high-risk pregnancy, and with twins typically being delivered earlier than the full term of 40... Continue Reading →

Birth Day

This is all I've ever wanted. If you know me well, you knew that. And I know I can say the same for my fiancee. Caron Nasir Burton made his debut on June 15 at 12:42 p.m., weighing in at 4 pounds and 14 ounces. Austin Robinson Burton followed his twin brother at 12:43 p.m.,... Continue Reading →

Black fear in the hour of chaos

For the last seven months, this pregnancy has been defined for me by fear and dread as much as it's been defined by excitement and anticipation. Tay and I found out in November via home pregnancy test that we were expecting. From then until our appointment a few days later to confirm the results, I... Continue Reading →

‘We’re gonna need a bigger car’

I don't know how many two-income couples in their 30s are still one-car households, but that's what my fiancee and I were before yesterday. That's entirely because I didn't come into this relationship with a car. I didn't even come into this relationship with a driver's license. I know that's even more rare. It's not... Continue Reading →

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